Question by Skatin’: FIL’s retirement party – no RSVP – should I be embarrassed or shrug it off?
My FIL’s company is throwing him a retirement party this evening. It’s a “cocktails and hors d’ouevres” evening. Our FIL told us about it and wanted me and my husband to be there even though it’s a company party.
Just today my husband forwarded me the email with the address. I realized that what he sent me is actually an invitation that was forwarded on from his dad, that came from someone at his company.
So basically, what I’m realizing is that no one officially invited us (since the party is being thrown FOR his dad) and that *gulp* no one RSVP’d for us. Since we were given a verbal invitation from his dad, I guess I thought that meant he was hosting it. But on the invitation there was a name & number to RSVP with – and I didn’t see it until this morning!
I feel like we have to go or my FIL will be hurt. It also took some time and doing to arrange a sitter for a long period of time since this party is 30 miles away on a Sunday night. So we’ll go.
Should I feel embarrassed we didn’t RSVP? I’ve never crashed a party before, but not going would be worse. Should I mention it to anyone or just keep my mouth shut?
Thank you both for replying so quickly! I feel so much better about it. Off to do my hair!
I couldn’t call in the morning because it was a work number. I think it was the office secretary and the secretary’s phone number. It’s a Sunday – there’s no one there, no one checking messages.
Also, the reason I didn’t ask if we were supposed to call someone is because I thought HE was arranging it, or his secretary. Meaning, I thought the verbal invite was the RSVP because we immediately said we’d come.
Best answer:
Answer by mystery
Don’t worry about it, you’re all family and the party is being given for him so he is the Guest of Honor and you’re invited by him so go and have a good time and don’t worry about the RSVP. Enjoy!
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